This week I had a lot of conversations around leadership. There is lots of great literature available on the subject, and I will create a list of the most important one of these days.
One comment I got this week was along the lines that "sometimes these books cloud the issue instead of clarifying it for me. The author's thinking process looks great on paper, makes lots of sense, but then when I have to apply it to real life situations, it turns into quite a different animal."
Readers get lost in models, definitions, principles and graphics. Managers don't know if they should use a different theory at the beginning of the week and then end, in the morning and the evening.
What the entire leadership discussion might just come down to is three things: the What, the How and the Why.
The What: management roles - objectives, responsibilities, targets, directions, tasks, deadlines, deliverables… This is what managers get hired for in the first place. It is their job.
The How: leadership roles (and styles) - personal credibility, accountability, inspiration, motivation, communication, handling of (own and others') emotions… This is how each person builds up the work culture in and around him, how she relates to her staff and what environment they chose to work in (Yes there is a choice element in that as well…).
The Why: What do we want to achieve in the end, why are we making all these efforts - vision, mission, values… The Why provides the context, background and the ultimate reason for our actions. Without it a vital piece is missing and this makes the manager's job virtually impossible.
The consistency and overall effectiveness of the manager (in managing others or/and themselves) lies in the careful reflexion on and mutual balancing of the What, the How and the Why.
And if you look closely, that works for pretty much everything in life.